WHY MOST LADIES MARRY LATE
Seek ye out of the book of the Lord , and read: no one of these shall fail, none shall want her mate: for my mouth it hath commanded, and his spirit it hath gathered them.
Isaiah 34:16 KJV
Right from child hood, it is the dream of every female to be married to her Prince charming, the man that will love and cherish her. But over time some of these females get over grown, still in their father’s house or on their own. These issue is so rappant that I feel we should address and profer solutions.
1. LACK OF SOCIAL SKILL.
Some ladies find it difficult to attend social functions like wedding, birthday, church programs; while some when they attend lack the social skill of interacting with people, be friending people, carrrying out interesting conversation thus their presence is not felt,
Most times it is in such places that you meet your dream man, who will be ready to marry you; stop staying indoor, husband will not come in your hidden corner to marry you, also when you are out be social and friendly to be able to attract friends to us. Am not advocating that you go all out every time and anywhere, both where you are invited and where you are not, there should be a balance in your outting and most importantly your motive must be right, else you might still not meet ur dream man.
2. HIGH EXPECTATION
Why every lady has the qualities and description of the kind of man she wants, but these qualities should not be written on stone, a suitor may have 1 or 2 and he loves you dearly and you find peace, the best thing you can do for yourself is to marry him rather than waiting for the man that has all the qualities of which you may be clocking 40years.
Stop searching for tall, handsome and rich; you are to make him tall, handsome and rich over time, so go ahead and marry him if he is rich in love, care and character.
3. LACK OF PRAYER AND FAITH IN GOD.
Some young ladies don’t see the need to pray for their husband to be, they feel when it’s time that’s when they will start praying. But if you must start early to pray about it, sow seed of faith, tell God when you want it.
Prayer are like seeds they earlier you plant them, the earlier you will harvest them, it does not mean that God will not answer your prayers, if they are late, but it adviceable to start early to wish to get married to, and have faith in God to bring your desires to pass at the right time.
4. LACK OF GENINUE SMILE.
It is said that the best make up is a smile, As a Lady you must learn to be friendly to every young man that comes your way. Learn to always wear a geninue smile, it makes you more beautiful and attractive, as you know men are easily attracted to beautiful women.
Being friendly does not mean that you are virteous. Also never embarrass a man for wooing you. It shows you are beautiful and attractive.
5. PLAYING HARD TO GET.
Some Ladies play hard to get, they enjoy seeing a man begging them for acceptance with these kind of attitude you will end up with the wrong man, or worst still no man will want to go through unneccessary pain to get you, thus you can frighten the right man from approaching you/marrying you.
this does not mean you should be easy to get thus on it’s own is dangerous on it’s own, but if you find a guy to love why make him suffer, I think the best thing to do is to get along with him.
6. LACK OF GOOD MANNERS.
Ladies are love driven, while men are respect driven even before it is expressed this in turn has kept some Ladies from getting married.
It’s important you cultivate good manners of respect and care. Never shout at a man no matter what he has done or who he is to you. Real beauty is your character not your physical appearance. Be humble no matter your acquisitical degree, be homely and hospitable even to strangers you never can tell when you will meet your Mr Right.
7. Be Hygience.
A man can bear his dirtiness but the last thing any man can tolerate is a dirty and smelling lady. Therefore Ladies be neat both inside and outside, especially your undies make them neat always. Bath twice daily, brush twice, shave as frequent as possible to avoid body odour never go out without roll-on or a perfume and make-up.
8. SPIRITUAL HINDERANCE.
This could be due to curses spoken against you from someone, somewhere that you may have offended, or jeolous of you, Also it could be as a result of demonic captivity, manipulation of demonic captivity, manipulation, household wickedness, anti-marrital force.